5 Mistakes Women Make Without Knowing It That Scare Men Away

5. Compare it to others

Whether it’s an ex, a colleague or a friend, simply making comparisons, even trivial ones, can be very badly received. “My ex did things differently”, “My girlfriend’s husband is more attentive”, “Why don’t you do like him?”… These little remarks, even if said without negative intention, can give the impression of never being good enough. A man needs to feel appreciated for who he is, and not in permanent competition with an ideal or another model.

A relationship is above all a balanced dynamic where everyone must feel comfortable and accepted. Far from being strict rules, these points simply show certain clumsiness which, if corrected, can avoid many misunderstandings. The essential thing always remains communication and respect for each other’s expectations.