Emotional Manipulation: 7 Lines That People Use To Control Others You Should Be Aware Of – Page 4

6. “This Always Happens To Me”

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So, by making this statement, the manipulator portrays themselves as victims of circumstances or other people’s actions. They seek to evoke sympathy and empathy from the target, making them feel responsible for the manipulator’s supposed misfortunes or predicaments.

The manipulator leverages this line to create a sense of guilt or obligation in the target. The implied message is that the target should step in to help or support the manipulator because they are constantly facing hardships. This can lead the target to feel responsible for the manipulator’s well-being or to provide emotional support at their own expense.

Emotional manipulators may use this phrase to elicit attention, gain control, or exploit the target’s caring nature. Over time, the manipulator may develop a pattern of relying on the target’s support while offering little or nothing in return. Thus establishing an imbalanced and unhealthy dynamic in the relationship.

7. “I Told You My Secrets, It’s Only Fair To Tell Me Yours”

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By saying this, the manipulator attempts to create a sense of obligation and reciprocity in the target. They imply that sharing personal information is a test of trust and loyalty. Therefore, if the target does not comply, they might be seen as untrustworthy or not caring enough.

This tactic exploits the target’s desire to be perceived as trustworthy and caring, making them feel compelled to reveal personal details even if they are uncomfortable doing so. The manipulator may then use this information to their advantage, either by exploiting vulnerabilities or using it against the target in the future.

In reality, emotional manipulators often use this line to gain power over the target and gather information that can be later used for manipulation or control. It’s important for individuals to set healthy boundaries and only share personal information when they feel safe and comfortable doing so, rather than succumbing to pressure from manipulative tactics.