Modern pedagogy often supports the idea that children should not be limited in order not to hinder their development. However, it is crucial to rediscover the importance of saying “no” to children for their development and well-being. Here are some tips for reletting to set limits in a constructive way.
1. Strict
It is essential not always to be complacent with one’s children. When you ask for something, do it seriously and firmly. The rules of the house must be applied strictly, without derogation except in exceptional cases. This consistency helps children to understand the limits and develop internal discipline.
2. Please provide explanations
In order for children to accept restrictions, it is important that they understand the reasons. A simple and clear explanation is much more effective than the traditional “because it’s like this.” For example, say, “Don’t bite other children because you hurt them” to explain the ban on biting.
3. 3. Constructive reproaches
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