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If an older parent or someone who is sick is approaching the end of their lives, certain behaviors or changes may indicate that time is near. Although it is difficult to deal with these signs, they offer relatives the opportunity to prepare themselves emotionally and to provide support with dignity and love. Here are three signs that you should pay attention to to support your loved ones in their last moments in the best possible way.
You mention frequently deceased relatives
When older or seriously ill people often speak of missing loved ones, they may indicate that they feel a special connection with them during this time of their lives. These recurring memories or dreams often convey a form of consolation or acceptance of their own end.
What you can do:
Listen carefully and without judgment.
Encourage them to share their memories and create a space in which they feel understood and at peace.
They tell of their own funerals
It is common for a person to end up living expressing thoughts about the organization or details of their funeral. This often reflects a deep awareness of their state and the desire to simplify things for their loved ones.
What you can do:
Take your words seriously, even if they are hard to hear.
Respect your wishes and make sure that their wishes are respected.
A sudden outbreak of energy and appetite
A phenomenon known as terminal lucanimentity can occur shortly before death. A seriously ill person can appear fitter, get an appetite again or even express the desire to go or stand up.
This may seem encouraging, but this energy boost usually follows a rapid decline.
What you can do:
Use these moments to share precious moments with them.
Keep alert to your needs and prepare for a possible deterioration in your condition.
They express regret or thanks
In their last moments, it is common for older or seriously ill people to look back at their lives and express regret or thanks. It can be a way for them to make peace with themselves and their loved ones before they leave.
What you can do:
